Sex and the City

I have been watching a lot of Sex and the City lately and I do find the show great. The lives of the four ladies are indeed interesting and entertaining. It’s funny and at the same time can also be educating. But here’s the “but” part: I don’t mean to be a killjoy for this matter, but it shows that casual sex is alright. Honestly, it really bothers me. Well, it will be fun for me if I’ll be having some casual sex anytime in the future, to tell you frankly. The thing is, I don’t like it anymore, just like when I was younger. I already know the many risks that come with it. Moreover, I don’t want to go steady with someone who does have casual sex. I want someone who will be just for me… someone who values herself not just when we became lovers. For this reason, I would rather have no casual sex and have a girl who really values herself than to have a lot of casual sex and be in a relationship with a girl who doesn’t treasure herself. Sex and the City is an award winning show, and indeed one of the best shows today, however, it do somehow connotes that casual sex is ok. Thus, it can, in anyway, change everyone’s perception of sex to worse. To my fellow guys, it has risks more than one can ever think of. I think you know what I’m saying, but if you don’t, would you still dare see it for yourselves? Of course, you have the choice. And girls, I hope you watch the show with a strong hold on your values, because many guys really want you… you who really have self value, to stay the same and to increase. Guys who go for an earnest commitment deserve girls like you! Don’t change. :)